The way I see it, my philosophy of life is that if we make up our mind about what we are going to make of our lives, then work hard toward that goal, we never lose! The hard part is to find out what you really want. I came up with three simple questions to find out what it may be:
1. What do you like to do the most?
2. What dou you believe is it that you do best?
3. What dou your friends believe you do best?
By ansvering these questions I somehow figured out what it was for me. Why don't you give it a try?