After such a long period of non posting, I desided to go into, let's say, a more intimate issue. Oh I know, after this many of you will despice me or think I am a pervert or whatever. Well, I thing I am curious an that is all what matters.
The other day I was surpriced to receive an message from a blog reader that
asked, “Are there any benefits to cybersex?” Like, seriously? Of course there are benefits to cybersex! So I was told after a little research! Cybersex, like real-life sex,
can be a wonderful thing—full of pleasure, skill, and sexual
self-expression.
So, I went to find the top ten reasons you — yes, you, red-blooded,
non-perverted world citizen— should be out doing it right now.
1. Safety: Despite the sensationalist buzz around internet
predators, cybersex is actually a lot safer than sex in real life. Don’t
give out personal information to strangers, of course, and you’ll find
the only thing you have worry about is what turns you on—not STD’s, not
unwanted pregnancy, not even how to find a babysitter. As one single mom
put it, “Why endanger my kids by bringing home sexual partners if I can
tuck them into bed and have fun online in the next room?”
2. Convenient sex for singles: Cybersex doesn’t require an
empty house, a hotel room, or even a bed. More importantly, it doesn’t
require the lengthy tactics of face-to-face seduction. Whether you’re
looking for a quick romp before you head off to work—hard to come by if
you live alone—or an end-of-the-night, on-demand orgasm, the internet
and its wealth of cybersex enthusiasts is always waiting and ready.
3. Convenient sex for couples: He lives in California. She’s spending three weeks visiting family in the Philippines. How will this couple handle their time apart? By having regular webcam sex,
of course! Being long-distance doesn’t mean you have to be sexually
frustrated. In fact, it can be a great time to explore sexy new sides to
a relationship—with the help of a little technology.
4. Trying new kinks: Because cybersex isn’t “real,” it gives
people a chance to experiment with sex acts and fetishes they haven’t,
wouldn’t, or couldn’t in real life. Think you have a thing for
stockings? Want to practice switching genders? Does the idea of being a giant whale
really turn you on, but you can’t figure out the logistics? Internet
sex communities are often accepting and almost always anonymous. Who’s
going to judge you?
5. Meeting new people: Having cybersex with someone you’ve
just met may seem strange, but it can actually lead to lasting online
friendships. Hook up with a hottie in a virtual world and you may find
yourself chatting about indie rock and ice cream preferences for hours
after the sex is over. There’s also the appeal of the virtual one-night
stand: a new lover every night, from the comfort of a desk chair.
6. Exercising your creative muscle: Cybersex is an art. How
often do you get to write like an erotic novelist and dream up new ways
to describe that tired, old “throbbing member”? Alternately, take pride
in your digital-camera skills. You’re a real pornography photographer
when you snap those naked pictures and post them online. Own up!
7. Making money: Sure, there are stigmas around using your
body for cash. But combine the safety, creativity, and convenience of
cybersex, and you’ve got a great recipe for online sex work. From escorting in Second Life
to performing on webcams, the possibilities abound for internet users
who feel comfortable putting themselves out there online—and earning
something back in exchange.
8. Gaining confidence: Don’t think you’re a sexy person?
You’re wrong. Someone out there on the world wide web shares your sexual
interests—and thinks you’re hot. Start chatting; buy yourself a webcam.
With enough cyberers wrapped around your sexy, virtual finger, you
might just look in the real-life mirror a whole new way.
9. Practicing for “the real thing”: Talking dirty in real-life
bed can be hard—not because it’s actually difficult, but because it
comes with a lot of pressure. “What if I sound stupid? What if he
doesn’t think it’s sexy?” Enter text-based cybersex.
Thanks to the anonymity of the internet, it’s easy to get feedback on
dirty talk—and to get used to hearing it coming out of your fingertips,
if not your mouth.
10. The sheer pleasure: Cybersex is sexy, and it feels good. So go on, have some already!
Well, I guess that rounds it up. So, whatever it is you think about it and what you do with it, none of my bussiness. Want to share your ideas, give me some feedback. I'd love to hear from you.
Most important: Have a great life and don't be to tough on yourself. Go out there and have some fun.
That's it.
P.S.: Check out Wikipedia and read what they say about cybersex! Quite interesting and funny!
